Trauma
The experience of trauma is universal. Trauma is not defined by the event, but by the person’s response (or lack thereof) to the event. In general, it is traumatic when the nervous system is overwhelmed or unable to cope effectively with a situation. The high charge arousal that occurs is more than the body, psyche, or situation can handle, causing deregulation. This deregulation shows up many ways but most always includes a lost of connection to self, the body and others.
Because language is largely a left brain function, people who have experienced early life trauma are generally not able to consciously recall or talk about their traumatic memories since these events were pre-verbal. Consequently, the body receives the memory, but the brain does not experience it in a coherent way. As adults, early childhood survivors can be overcome with raw emotions or may be dissociated from the pain because it is simply too difficult for the psyche to process. Also, early trauma impedes the ability to cope with stressful situations later on in life. Trauma survivors become stuck in either rigidity (control) or chaos (no structure.)
Mind/body integration offers options of a different way of being that were not available during the original trauma, allowing for new possibilities. With the support of the therapist, the survivor learns how to regulate the body in the face of what in the past was overwhelming the system. This process then regulates the mind and re-channels “stuck energy” allowing frozen energies to be released. "Stuck" energies get to choose different pathways. This allows the survivor to re-own their vital energy, empowering both mind and body.
RESOURCES:
Visualizations: https://www.thetoolsbook.com/tools
Assessments
Resiliency Quiz: https://www.resiliencyquiz.com/index.shtml?mc_cid=0cce9dc1e0&mc_eid=e7cd26d1c3
Attachment Quiz: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/
Loneliness Scale: https://fetzer.org/sites/default/files/images/stories/pdf/selfmeasures/Self_Measures_for_Loneliness_and_Interpersonal_Problems_VERSION_3_UCLA_LONELINESS.pdf
The following links provide information and resources that may be helpful to you on your mental health journey.
ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES
https://weempoweraces.org
MEDITATION
Dhamma — free 10-day Vipassana meditation retreats
Liberate Meditation — meditation app designed specifically with POC in mind
Headspace — online guided meditation via website and/or app
Insight Timer — app and online community for meditation
Waking Up — app with meditation course by Sam Harris with lessons from great thinkers
ADDICTION RECOVER/SOBER LIVING
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/alcohols-effects-health
https://www.drugabuse.gov/related-topics/treatment
https://www.smartrecovery.org/
https://www.nnjaa.org/
https://www.aa.org/pages/en_US/need-help-with-a-drinking-problem
https://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/addictions.htm
DEPRESSION
https://www.nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-Conditions/Depression/Overview
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression/index.shtml
ANXIETY/STRESS MANAGEMENT
https://www.nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-Conditions/Anxiety-Disorders
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/emotional-intelligence-toolkit.htm
CHRONIC PAIN
https://www.practicalpainmanagement.com/treatments/complementary/biobehavioral/5-coping-skills-every-chronic-pain-patient-needs
https://www.apa.org/helpcenter/chronic-pain
https://www.spine-health.com/conditions/depression/4-tips-help-cope-chronic-pain-and-depression
GRIEF AND LOSS
https://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/grief.htm
CRISIS HOTLINES
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
http://drughelpline.org/alcohol-hotline/
https://www.nami.org/find-support/nami-helpline
https://www.rainn.org/
SPECIAL NEED PARENTING
https://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/autism.htm
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/add-adhd/when-your-child-has-attention-deficit-disorder-adhd.htm
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/add-adhd/attention-deficit-disorder-adhd-in-children.htm
SELF-CARE
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/parenting-family/family-caregiving.htm
MINDFULNESS
https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/
https://www.habitsforwellbeing.com/mindfulness-101-a-beginners-guide-to-mindfulness/
SLEEP HYGIENE
https://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/sleep.htm
https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/~/media/cci/mental%20health%20professionals/sleep/sleep%20-%20information%20sheets/sleep%20information%20sheet%20-%2004%20-%20sleep%20hygiene.pdf
SMOKING CESSATION
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/addictions/how-to-quit-smoking.htm
https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/data_statistics/fact_sheets/cessation/quitting/index.htm
GAMBLING ADDICTION
http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/content/questions-answers-about-gamblers-anonymous
https://www.gam-anon.org/
https://www.gamtalk.org/
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/addictions/gambling-addiction-and-problem-gambling.htm
OTHER
Oprah’s 10 top reads for healing trauma: https://www.oprahdaily.com/entertainment/books/g42465900/books-to-help-heal-trauma/?utm_content=68875966&utm_medium=email&utm_source=hs_automation
Rick Hanson, Ph.D Neuroscientist: https://www.rickhanson.net/contact/ask-dr-rick/ Kelly Mahler: https://www.kelly-mahler.com/what-is-interoception/ Peter Levine: Waking the Tiger, Sounds True Store
Bessel van der Kolk: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Penny Parks: Rescuing the Inner Child
Beverly Engel: The Right to Innocence
Trauma Releasing Exercises (TRE)